Don't spend your life trying to change your stripes into spots. A healthy self-image starts with learning to accept and love ourselves. Accept who you are make peace with the person in the mirror. Your self-image can be your most powerful tool or your worst enemy. Self-acceptance can set you free, but unhappiness within yourself, about yourself, can keep u hostage. Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind