There are things that you have to go through so that you may understand them but now the thing is we seldom fail to do so.In every situation, circumstance or even happiness we must understand that there is a (gift) lesson to be learnt so what you have to do you have to be always positive so that positive things will attract you and that will enable you find that (gift) lessons from any situation.

I call lessons gifts because a Goft is that thing we find unexpectedly and it rapped up so all you need to do it to open it and find it and use it.